​For every pattern you recognize within yourself, understanding how that pattern enhances or diminishes your creative power, your flow of energy through the layers of your being, is very useful. Codependency is a way of being in the world, in your relationship to others, to yourself, and in your relationship to the situations of your experience that has significant impact on your energy flow, on how you direct the life pulse of your creative being to manifest your personal reality. 

Be mindful of the stories you let yourself become accustomed to telling. Be mindful of the stories and explanations you integrate into your being from your environment. Be mindful of the energies you allow yourself to resonate with. Remind yourself that no matter the source of the information, it’s still entirely up to you to evaluate it for its usefulness and service to your highest and best.

The expectation you unconsciously hold around "I can't get exactly what I want" or "I have to settle for less than what I want" or flat out "I can't always have what I want" is often rooted in the emotional learning you take on from the inconsistent or restricted giving of the “authority” figures in your early experience, your parents or caregivers, your early teachers, your family members and so on. 

Often, when someone says "hey, if anything is possible then can I manifest [insert goal/desire here]?"

My first response is "I don't know, can you?"

Part of playing the deliberate creation game is fully owning your power to be, do, and have whatever it is you say you desire. 

Your reality has already shifted. Bring yourself to unequivocally know this. It’s really not possible for your reality to not shift, to not alter, to not transform. All around you and within you packets, clusters, and patterns of information are organizing and reorganizing moment after moment. Bonds are forming and bonds are dissolving. New forms are emerging and old forms are dissolving.